Is the her the one you’re with or another? Which love are you trying to get over? I guess I’m in a similar situation and I’m lost and confused about where he stands. He should get over me according to the right thing to do, but I don’t want him to do that. It’s selfish…I know. It’s just that I’m afraid I won’t be able to get over him, and then I’ll just be left in all of this alone. That’s my worst fear to be honest.